| How to Break
Up With Your Boyfriend!
We could NOT find any good advice online
for how to break up with your boyfriend.
One would assume that it would be done
gently so as not to hurt any feelings. Unless, of course, your boyfriend
is a real abusive, cheating schmuck - in which case we would hope you would
kick his arse out the door so fast that you wouldn't have time to open it
first!
Well, anyway, here (below) is what we
found on dumping your guy friend. As usual please feel free to leave your
advice or comments on this subject at the bottom of the page!
From
http://www.poemofquotes.com/articles/how-to-break-up.php
"Advice on How to Break Up With
Someone
Breaking up can be one of the hardest
decisions one can ever make. However, in more times than not, we find we
are with a jerk who just needs to be gotten rid of.
Many of us have problems with this.
Be it not being able to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend due to being afraid
of the consequences or because they were truly great, just isn't 'the
one.'
Depending on the circumstances, there
are certain rules which should be in place.
Break Up Rules
1. Do not avoid the subject.
2. Remain calm.
3. Talk about it.
4. It's always best to do it in person.
5. After the break up, do not go back -- no matter
what."
How to break up with your boyfriend...
From
http://www.nuts4chic.com/2006/nuts4love/
How_to_Break_up/How_to_Break_up.html
" How to Break Up with Your
Boyfriend
By Tania Boghossian
There comes a time when you say to
yourself: It’s over.
Or, if you’re like most women,
you waffle and flip-flop and second-guess yourself — possibly for years
— instead of taking decisive action. So how do you know when it’s
time to ditch your guy once and for all? If you’re lucky, the telltale
signs will be painted on the wall. But what if the urge is ambiguous as a
gut feeling? Should you follow your intuition or hang in a little while longer,
hoping things will change?
Whether it’s after one date or
several years, dumping a guy is dirty work. And no matter how you do it,
one thing’s for sure: pulling the plug gets harder as time wears on.
No wonder why so many women avoid it."
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From
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/28520/
creative_ways_to_dump_break_up_ideas.html?page=2
"Creative Ways to Dump: Break Up Ideas
for Boyfriends and Girlfriends
If you really need to rid yourself
of someone, you can always treat them so terribly that they break up with
you first.
Are you too original, cunning, witty,
mischievous, or spiteful to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend through
a conventional heart-to-heart conversation? If so, then check out these creative
ways to dump someone. Whether you’re passive-aggressive or just plain
aggressive, you’re bound to find a break up idea that will work for
your loser of a boyfriend of your leech of a
girlfriend."
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From
http://www99.epinions.com/content_222298476164
"Breaking All the Rules - Jamie
Foxx is only a minor hit, but Gabrielle Union is great
:)
Quincy has been reading so much employee
termination research that he's starting to compare it to his girlfriend and
during the past week he made a manual on how to break up with your
boyfriend...which he says is just like firing someone because "you want to
do it the easiest way, the simplest way without creating a stalker". He first
puts it into practice as Evan wants to break up with a girl... and then it
all starts to flow. The process works so great they decide to print the breakup
handbook! Quincy went from being dumped to being the king of breakups...
"
From
http://www.powerlineblog.com/archives/000984.php
""The problem seems to be, as always,
in the underlying assumptions of the cases involved. 'How to break up with
your boyfriend' is already a little loaded. Why not girlfriend instead? But
more importantly, we all know what's coming next: 'How to confront a racist,'
'How to tell your parents you're gay,' 'How to tell your company you're about
to whistleblow on their enviro-racist policies.' 'How to defend yourself
against unfair charges of workplace bias' probably does not make the
list.""
Found online
How to break up with your
boyfriend
Condensed from
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=
blog.view&friendID=34448176&blogID=60458935
&MyToken=7bf0fe72-06ff-4c3c-aacc-0ab2b33c1673
"How to Break Up With Your Boyfriend,
It's not me, It's you!!!
Stage One: Decisions,
decisions:
First be sure that you are ready to
let him go.
Stage 2: Organization: Figure out
HOW, WHEN, and WHERE.
You may even want to consider your
own outfit for this day :)
How: Well, be honest and if you do
not entirely hate him then sugar coat it, but if you do then go ahead, be
brutal!
When: The best time is
ASAP!
Where: Public places usually work
out better.
Stage 3: Home
Free:
Okay, so now you have broken the news,
but don't let him whine you out of it, even if he does look like you shot
his puppy.
Post Break Up Advice: You may want
to stay away from the ex-bf for a while. About a month is
best."
From
http://www.jewishfriendfinder.com
Break up with my boyfriend
"I have finished with my fella I could
not stand it anymore the boozing and lieing, being so deceitful, I was going
out of my head till I plucked up courage and told him that it was
over."
From
http://www.atlanticcanadalive.com/content/view/70/2/
"As the television viewing audience
watched, we were offered lessons in 'How To Break Up With Your Boyfriend
Simply By Crossing A Floor'. We saw MacKay's broken heartedness and who can
ever forget the image of a man scorned, standing in the middle of a potato
field with his well-worn rubber boots, obligatory overhauls, grasping the
quintessential pitch fork and a facial expression that may very well go down
in history as the famous look of a jilted man. The only thing missing were
the haunting strains of 'I'm So Lonesome I Could Die'."
From
http://theredcollection.tblog.com/archive/2006/07/
"HOW TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR
GIRLFRIEND:
1. Make her pay for her own meals
2. Tell her she looks fat in her bikini
3. Sleep with her best friend
HAHA!~ =D
to show i'm not a sexist and after much analysis, i came up with
this:
HOW TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND:
1. SLEEP WITH HIS BEST FRIEND ;)
i guess one step will do. guys have
lotsa EGO ;)"
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From
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"Topics of conversations included
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From
http://www.snzeport.com/dlarticles2/
breakup-with-boyfriend.htm
"you just know that you need to breakup
with your boy friend. The simplest way to do is to come outright with it
and tell him so to his face.
-- though of course to break up
gracefully, there are a few essentials you have to communicate to him:
* Let him know that You will not be calling or seeing him again.
* A possible reason (say you are moving on or have developed other
interests)
* Thank him for your time together and wish him well and hope that he will
find someone even better."
From
http://www.snzeport.com/dlarticles2/relationship-breakup.htm
" Don’t know how to break up
a relationship peacefully? Read and follow the tips
below.
1. Accept and recognize that the
relationship is indeed over. >
2. Once you have determined that the relationship is over and that it is
time to end it formally then you must act quickly. >
3. Break up with your partner personally. >
4. Choose a quiet and private place to meet up when you have finally decided
on a date when to tell your partner that you are breaking up with him.
5. Make sure that both you and your partner are calm and rational before
you finally break up with him.
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